Graduation is a high school tradition often considered a rite of passage into adulthood.  Graduation represents the end of adolescence and the beginning of the next phase of life.  People can almost hear high school students from across the country shouting:  “PARTY!”  Unfortunately, during this time of year there is a risk of drunk driving accidents, drug overdoses, and other crimes or incidents—most involving high school students.  While high school graduation parties are supposed to be fun, they are also supposed to be safe.  Keep these safety guidelines in mind as you prepare for the next high school graduation party.

·         ASK.  Ask questions to begin preparing for graduation parties.  Ask simple questions such as “who, what, where, and when.”  Ask the parents hosting the parties if alcohol will be served, and what they plan to do to ensure minors will not use alcohol.  When an adult provides alcohol to a minor it sends the message that it is O.K. for them to drink, and this also sends the message that we are above the law and can pick and choose which laws are important.

**Did you know?**  It is against the law to serve alcohol to minors even on your own property.  The legal consequences for serving alcohol to minors are severe and may include thousands of dollars in fines and imprisonment. 

·         Talk.   Talk to graduates about what to do if they are at a party where alcohol is available to minors.  Create a “code word” in case he or she would like to call for a ride.  This will help if friends are around.  Send a text message checking on them, and this will also give opportunity for them to ask for help.  Most of all—be sure your graduate knows that he or she can get a ride no matter the time.

·         Supervision.    No matter where the party is going to be parents need to make sure that the party is going to have adequate supervision.  A chaperone will reduce the chance of underage drinking, sex, and illegal drug use.  This person will be able to ensure that everyone is safe, while allowing everyone to have fun.   Don’t be afraid to check in on him or her throughout the night. 

·         Be Involved.  One of the greatest deterrents to inappropriate behavior as a teenager is parent involvement.  Make sure your graduate understands the expectations and consequences of their actions.  Parents who host the party will have more involvement, and they can ensure the safety of their child by providing an alcohol and drug free environment.